Woman： In most cases， interviewers and interviewees will make full preparations before interviewin9．To both，the interview seems like a challenge between two minds or intelligences． Psychologically it is advisable．I find nobody I controls an interview--neither you nor the interviewer--although one or both parties often try．Otherwise it becomes a phony exchange between two human beings；no business is likely to be transacted． Remember， compulsive behavior turns off your authenticity．